Oh No! This is Not What I Expected – How to Handle Travel Disappointments
- Brandy Roper
- Feb 1
- 3 min read

We’ve all been there. You’ve finally arrived at your dream resort, cruise cabin, or hotel room, only to realize that it doesn’t match the glowing reviews or pristine photos you saw online. Maybe the room is smaller than anticipated, the view isn’t what you paid for, or the amenities you were promised are missing. Disappointment can put a damper on your trip, but the good news is – there are ways to turn it around.
As a travel agent, I’ve helped countless clients navigate these moments, and I’m here to walk you through what to do when your accommodations aren’t what you expected.
1. Take a Breath – Don’t Panic
It’s easy to get frustrated when things don’t go as planned, but staying calm is key. Remember, issues like these are often fixable with the right approach. Most hotels, resorts, and cruise lines value guest satisfaction and are willing to resolve problems quickly.
2. Gather Your Documentation
Before you approach management, make sure you have all relevant documents handy. This includes:
Booking confirmation emails
Screenshots of room descriptions, amenities, or photos from the website
Payment receipts and invoices
Any correspondence with the property
Having this information on hand strengthens your case and shows management exactly what was promised.
3. Clearly Identify the Issue
Be specific about what’s wrong. Is the room not as described? Are certain amenities missing? Is there a cleanliness or maintenance issue? Clear, concise communication helps management understand the problem quickly.
Example:
“My confirmation states that I booked a junior suite with an ocean view, but I’ve been placed in a standard room facing the parking lot.”
“The pool is advertised as heated, but it’s too cold to swim.”
4. Propose a Solution
When you approach management, don’t just highlight the issue – suggest a solution. This proactive approach shows you’re reasonable and open to compromise. Some potential solutions include:
Room upgrade
Complimentary amenities (spa credit, dining vouchers)
Moving to another property (if feasible)
Partial refund or discount
Tip: Know your priorities. If a better room isn’t available, perhaps extra perks or amenities can make up for the inconvenience.
5. Go to Management First (But Call Me Too!)
The fastest way to resolve most issues is by speaking directly to the property’s front desk, concierge, or guest services. However, always let me – your travel agent – know what’s happening before you approach management. I can often provide advice or background information that helps strengthen your case.
If management isn’t responsive or unable to resolve the issue, call me immediately. I have direct connections with suppliers and can advocate for you behind the scenes. Sometimes, all it takes is a quick call from an agent to escalate the problem to the right person.
6. Document Everything
If the issue isn’t resolved right away, document everything:
Take photos or videos of the problem
Write down the names of staff you speak with
Record dates and times of conversations
This can be useful if further escalation is needed.
7. Know When to Escalate
If the front desk can’t resolve the issue, ask to speak with the hotel manager, guest services director, or someone higher up. Be polite but firm in requesting a resolution.
In cases where a resolution isn’t reached during your stay, let me know so I can follow up after your trip. Sometimes, properties are willing to offer post-travel compensation or credits.
8. Customer Service Issues on Cruises and Tours
This process isn’t just for hotels – the same principles apply to cruise ships and guided tours.
If your cabin isn’t what you expected, speak to guest services or the cruise director.
If a tour falls short, address concerns with the operator immediately.
Most cruise lines and tour companies have robust customer service teams ready to assist guests while in destination.
9. How I Can Help
When you book with me, you’re not just getting a vacation – you’re getting an advocate. I’m here to help resolve problems, advocate on your behalf, and ensure your trip is as smooth as possible. Travel isn’t always perfect, but with a professional in your corner, the stress of navigating issues is significantly reduced.
Final Thought
Travel is all about creating unforgettable memories, and a few bumps along the way don’t have to ruin the experience. With preparation, calm communication, and a clear action plan, most travel disappointments can be quickly turned around.
So, if something’s not right – take a breath, document the issue, and let’s work together to make it right!
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